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[MUSIC] So what's the no-fly zone on a date for you? How far are you willing to go with women? How far [INAUDIBLE] on you? Well my no-fly zone [INAUDIBLE] is there can be touch so you know that I'm there and I am present [INAUDIBLE] Maybe a little kiss, but other than that, you know, we can't do nothing else. [LAUGH] So how do you keep him tamed, like what do you do when you have urges? Anytime that I feel that I And need a release is a lot of prayer. There's a lot of thought. There is temptation. He's a part of me, you know? And I want to make sure that I keep it under control. Have you ever almost slipped up? I haven't almost ever slipped up, but I've been in situations that it's looking like it's about to be Netflix and chill, however, I think that I've been safe because I've always dealt with women Who understood my situation. If I was doing this thing on my own, I would have tricked it off a long time ago. Okay, do you watch porn? I tried to stay away from anything that could possibly tempt me, that could possibly take me down. I'm not perfect. I am a human being, I was young before, and I have watched that. But in terms of my day to day lifestyle, I don't watch porn. What if the love of your life isn't a virgin? Is that a deal breaker? I want a woman that's real, a woman that's comfortable. With herself, so for me it doesn't matter if she's a virgin or not. How many partners, like, I'm not gonna play the numbers game. I want her for her. [BLANK_AUDIO]

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