Whether he was once your boyfriend or your husband, it doesn’t always make having an “ex” any easier. Let’s face it. Dealing with the ex-factor can be complicated.

Should you call him on holidays? Is it weird that he still writes on your Facebook wall? Do you have to breakup with his mom too? Of course, there are “rules,” but they’re not always that easy to follow.

What’s your relationship like with your ex? Let’s discuss!

Join ESSENCE.com tonight at 8pm EST on Twitter for #SheTime to discuss the rules you should and should not follow when it comes to exes.

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On Thursday December 1st, 2011 at 8pm EST click here to jump right in and join the discussion.

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