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Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: He’s taking me for granted Dear Morning Crew, My husband and I will be married for two years in December, but we have been together for three years in September. We will be 21 in September. I have been pregnant for three years straight. I had twins in October 2008, but they passed away. I had London, who is 9 months old, in October 2009, and Landon will be here in November of 2010. I have had jobs while I was pregnant, but then I had many pregnancy complications, so my husband and I decided that I would not work due to its affects on my body. Well now that I am the “stay-at-home mom,” I feel very unappreciated. I am a praying and fighting wife, and I want the best for my family. I put my feelings aside to make everyone happy. My husband, on the other hand, is stubborn and feels that he is always right and has to have the last word. I have changed and scarified so much and I can never get a “thank you” or “I see you making progress babe and I like it.” I find myself always telling him thank you and how much I appreciate him and all that good stuff. He also gets paid every week and I cannot even get a movie date out of him. I do not ask for much, besides a little “me time” because I have my daughter all the time and I am six months pregnant. He gets to come in after work and leave right out and not come back for hours. I think he is cheating on me and that this marriage is not something that he wants. I love him dearly, but I do not know how much longer I can go with him over looking me and not showing me that he loves me. My parents think that I am too mature for him. He has stepped up and taken care of home, but it is only on his time. I am all out of answer. I have been praying like crazy and part of me feels that God has placed an answer right in front of me; I just do not want to believe it. Will it really take for me to leave him for him not to throw me on the back burner?