Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Has he really changed?  Dear Steve, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. Ten months into our relationship, I found out he was cheating on me. I met the girl and everything because he brought her to where I layed my head at. Thinking that it was over between them, I forgave him. Then later on, I found out that he was still seeing her. So I let her know that we were still together. While he was coming to see me, she had access to his apartment, and his truck. After the second time he got caught, he claimed that she grabbed all her things from his apartment and left. Then he said, Im glad you did that, because now I can focus on us. I told him that if I feel I’m not wanted, then the feeling will be mutual, and I will go on my happy way. I just hope he understands, that even though I forgave him, that I will leave if it happens again. Do you think that he’s really through with her, or is he just saying it to keep me here?
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