Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Waiting for him to grow up Hello everyone. I am writing this because I am at my wit’s end. First of all I have to say that life has taught me some serious lessons that have made me look at the show “Snapped” in a whole new light. I am 32 years old, with three kids and I am in my second marriage. My first marriage was to a drug addict that was abusive. The marriage was going end in divorce or death–I chose divorce. Then I met a married a man that knew my situation and acted as though he understood. After a couple years of just fooling around and one year of dating we decided to get married. It was heaven-sent until this fool bumped his head, I guess. Now he wants to start cheating and playing games. I refuse to fuss even when I catch him in lies because I know when people argue no one really hears what the other is saying. However, now I want to grab him by his neck and say you have a woman that stands by you 100 percent, keeps it Gucci, never fusses, can cook, clean, and make you scream and you want to play? Grow the hell up! I want to know the best way to handle this situation from you all because there was an episode of “Snapped” that was like this an she just pleaded insanity and got probation. Help me! To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.