Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: The love is gone Dear Morning Crew, My fiance and I have been together for over 10 years now. We started dating when I was 18 years old. Over the years, as I’ve grown into an adult, my goals and outlook on life have totally changed. In 2007, I gave birth to twins and we still had not even talked about getting married. As I sit down today, I look at him and say to myself, “I love this man, but I’m just not in love with him.” I don’t want to look back on life in my golden years and regret anything. We got together when we were so young and now it seems we have nothing in common. I can say, “Let’s go to on vacation to an island,” and he will say, “No because there might be a hurricane.” I will say, “Lets go on a cruise,” and he will say, “No because there are pirates at sea.” It can be as simple as getting together with family and friends and he would rather not go and will leave to me to go on my own. I just think that as we get older, we are not each other’s perfect matches. We’re just going through the motions of everyday life with each other. I think he is perfectly fine with the way things are with us, but I not happy and in love. Steve, please help me because the love is gone out of the window. Sincerely, Love don’t live here anymore To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.