Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Three is a crowd Dear Steve, My husband approached me few months ago and told me that he wanted to explore a fantasy and bring a third person into our bedroom. Since I am an exhibitionist, I naturally agreed to give it a try. However, I had no idea what I was really getting myself involved with. I have always heard that most men think of having two women, so I had no idea that my husband wanted to bring another man into the equation. We did the deed a few times and I was really uncomfortable with watching my husband receive and perform acts on another man. So I told him that it has to end. Recently I found out that my husband and this same guy are continuing to see each other, just without me. When I approached my husband about this, he told me that he loves me and that he is not cheating because it is with another man. He and this guy are now even spending time together and taking business trips together. It has gotten to the point where our son is calling this other guy his uncle. Do you think I should be upset about this and do you think that this should be considered cheating? After all I opened the door for this to start. To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.