Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: My ex is out of control Hello Steve Harvey Morning Show, I have two children by a man that just won’t let go. He has harassed me at my job to the point that I was fired. He sent an email to everyone who knows my family and me, telling every personal thing that I ever told him. And last but not least, he told the judge in court that because I was raped, I would expose our daughter to the same abuse. I have tried my best to move passed his craziness so he can bond with his children, but, no matter what I do, he finds some way to harass me. It’s to the point that I have someone with me when his weekend for visitation comes. I have done nothing to this man except ask him to pay child support and be a father to his children. He has managed to keep me in court every other month on little things like not having his name as an emergency contact to not being able to dictate to me how to raise the children. I am at a loss as to what to do. He has managed to stay within his legal rights. I have nothing to use on him to keep him away. I want my children to know their father, but I also want to live my life without wondering what he will do next. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks, Exhausted P.S. He has not even paid child support. To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.