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My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls

This week, Candice Antoine, a blogger from Trinidad and Tobago, reveals an intimate look at her personal "hairstory" since her relaxed days until now. Be inspired by Antoine's journey to #teamnatural.
By Nicole Marie Melton · Updated October 28, 2020
01
Just Relax

I love being natural now, but I must admit it took a lot for me to get here. This was about four years before I decided to call it quits with relaxer. My hair was thinning so badly particularly at the back of my head yet I couldn’t see a big chop in my future. I just couldn’t commit to the idea of wearing my hair in its natural state.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
02
In Limbo

In 2009, I moved to New York for short period after graduation.  The salons there were so expensive compared to back home, and I couldn’t afford to get a relaxer done. I ended up with three inches of new growth and I loved the texture of it.  This is how my ongoing dilemma began—to big chop or not to big chop, that was the question.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
03
A New Day

Two years later I finally did it! I went to the barber shop and told them to cut it all off. It took me a while to get to the stage where I was fully at peace with having no hair. I actually kept my hair this low for a couple of months until I was comfortable with embracing my natural hair and my natural beauty.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
04
My Biggest Supporter

My husband LOVES my natural hair and actually encouraged me to big chop. He took me to his barber and when all my hair was gone and tears ran down my cheeks he rubbed my bald head and told me I never looked more beautiful.  *blushes*

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
05
Blast from the Past

You know those styles your mom would put in your hair in as a child and you hated them? The funny thing is I love them now.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
06
Mission Accomplished

At this point, I could finally get my hair in a decent looking puff!  When I want to dress up my puff, I just add a nice band. 

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
07
Tapered Tresses

One thing I struggle with as a natural is shrinkage but I’ve found ways to make it work for me. For this style I let my curls shrink in the back but left the front long and loose to create a tapered look.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
08
Healthy Inside and Out

Now that I’m natural, I take a lot better care of my body and watch what I eat.  You know what they say: a healthy body means healthy hair.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
09
Twist and Shout

I learned to do Senegalese twists about a year ago. Since I learned how to do them myself, there’s no stopping me!  I will throw my hair in twists when I need to switch it up. This also makes a great protective style when my schedule gets busy.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
10
Glam on the Go

I don’t have a lot of time for fancy hairstyles in the morning so this is a typical hairstyle that I’ll wear to work.  To get this style, I create two-strand flat-twists on each side of my head.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
11
Tress Toppers

I change scarves to reflect the mood I’m in. Darker scarves mean I’m feeling sexy while colorful scarves make me feel playful.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
12
Fierce ‘Fro

Since I’ve gone natural the fro has been my go-to style. The crazier the better! I just love how full my hair is now!

If you’d like to share your natural hair journey on ESSENCE.com, email the following information to BeautyEditors@essence.com:

-At least 10 photos of your hairstyles over the years. Please include at least one photo from your pre-natural days, if applicable.
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If your photos are selected to appear on the site, you will be contacted by email. Only submissions with all of the assets listed above will be considered.

My Journey to Natural: How I Learned to Embrace My Curls
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