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A Love Built to Last

Need some real love in your life? According to the Harveys, having a happy and loving union starts with God. Here, their tips on how to make your love stronger.
How To: Make a Lasting Love
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By Audrey Edwards · Updated October 27, 2020

Need some real love in your life?

According to the Harveys, having a happy and loving union starts with God.

Here, their tips on how to make your love stronger:

1. Make God the foundation of your relationship.

2. Learn to communicate—it’s the most important asset in a marriage.

3. Have mutual respect for each other.

4. Take time just for you and your mate to discuss any challenges at least once every six weeks. This helps keep things on track.

5. Keep it fiery. Send sexy text messages. Give your mate a reason to rush home.