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Your Best Advice On How to Look and Feel Your Sexiest

You’re sexy and you know it — that’s why we asked you to reveal your tricks for feeling your sexiest, any time, any place. Read our favorite tips!
By Charli Penn · Updated October 28, 2020
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Channel Your Inner Goddess

“Being your sexiest is knowing who you are, where you are and that you can make someone crave you!” – Pamela

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Be a Hot Mom

“Toting my small children around, doing mommy things, but still looking hot!” — Stacey

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Buy an Unforgettable Pair of Jeans

“A nice, curve-hugging pair of jeans makes me feel my absolute sexiest!” – Anna

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Get Your Money Right

“Having my bills paid and money in the bank.” – Keston Duke

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Update Your Little Black Dress

“A cute little black dress and a pair of sexy heels always works.” – Sherrill

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06
Go Natural

“Having my locks washed, freshly twisted and blowing in the wind makes me feel sexiest!” – Nicole

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Do the Impossible

“I gained 100 pounds during pregnancy then gave natural birth to a 10-pound boy. Losing the 100 pounds within a year not only made me feel sexy but powerful as ever!” – Ty

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08
Play With Color

“When I wear my ruby red lipstick and smoky eyes!” — Shante

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Drop a Dress Size (Or Two!)

“Being fit! I recently lost 18lbs with diet and exercise. At 44 years old, I feel sexier than ever.”

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Dress Up “Down There”

“Lace undies!” – Deborah

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Keep the Faith

“To me sexy has nothing to do with an outfit, hair or nails. It’s how I carry myself, the type of person I am, and my faith in God.” – Bridgette

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Keep it Clean

“When the bush on my face (my eyebrows!) get shaped up, cleaned up and arched up, it totally transforms my face and really brings out my makeup, outfit and overall confidence. Results: I feel SEXY!” – Fab

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Show Some Skin

“When I wear a blouse or sweater with a widen neckline that allows for an exposed shoulder.” – Kim

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Treat Yourself

“I buy a new nightie!” – Sian

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Flex Your Ageless Beauty

“Nourishing my sexy body with smoothies and veggies makes me feel sexiest. Also, when I hear people tell me they can’t believe I’m 40!” – Shereen

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Let the Pampering Begin

“When I have a new ‘do, a nice long shower, and put on smell goods and oil afterward.” – LaTasha

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Wow Him

“His reaction every time I get undressed makes me feel sexiest!” – Della

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Learn Something New

“I feel sexy when I’m learning new things. Knowledge is power!” – Ebony

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Take Care of Your Skin

“Soft skin makes me feel sexy!” – Phyllis

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