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Turn Him On: Your Sexiest Secrets Revealed

Turn Him On: Your Sexiest Secrets Revealed
By · Updated October 28, 2020
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Sweeten the Pot

“Bake a sweet potato pie with cinnamon. He’ll love the smell; it makes him desire you.” — Velma

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Get Close to His Heart

“Kiss his chest, gently.” – Catherine

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Handle Your Business

“My man often tells me that he is turned on by watching and listening to me handle my business. He likes the way I take control of my business situations and how he knows that I got his back at all time. A connection like that will last forever. “ – Phyllis

04
Stare Him Down

“I turn him on by looking him straight in his eyes as I’m undressing.” – Erica

05
Spring Cleaning

“I go get ‘it’ waxed!” – Edwina

06
Special Delivery

“I turn him on by walking into his office and doing some things he never thought I would do. “ – PB

07
Bare It All

“I give him a massage in the nude.” — LaToya

08
Tango for Two

“A nice sexy pair of heels and a dance. Can’t forget my birthday suit!” — Tiffany

09
Go Back to Basics

“Cook dinner, take a shower and get in the bed naked!” — Keisha

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Spice Up the Menu

“Get dressed up in a sexy dress. Go out to dinner. After dinner is over and the check has been paid, I go to the rest room, take off my sexy panties, come back to the table and drop them in his lap. Let the games begin.” – Erin

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Let the Games Begin

“Never let it get boring…don’t be afraid to be inventive and surprise him – men love the guessing game. Example: Try blind folding him and just start giving soft kisses everywhere but slowly make him wonder where you’re headed next – it will drive him crazy!” – Melissa

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Study Up

“My recipe: Know what he likes, do what he likes, make it about him. Initiate the moment, make it something new, often, and flirt with him daily.” — Yolanda

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