Home · Relationships 20 Ways to Save Black Love 20 Ways to Save Black Love By · September 12, 2011October 28, 2020 01 How to Make It Work “Increase self-love so that people can truly know how and what it means to love another.” By @NaturallyJazzy 02 How to Make It Work Individuals should take responsibility for their personal & relationship issues & stop blaming society, men, women, etc. By @sowhatiff 03 How to Make It Work “Improved communication in couples before vows are made. A lot of people don’t discuss wants and desires before marriage.” By @ibanomaly 04 How to Make It Work “Increase number of healthy, mentally stable, commitment ready, family oriented black singles and a way for them to meet.” By @Occaneechi 05 How to Make It Work “A solution for the new form of slavery..mass incarceration..in addition to aggressive education of black men.” By @LaPhonologist 06 How to Make It Work “Black Love needs better PR. It’s not just Barack & Michelle or Will & Jada.” By @YonnieTaughtU 07 How to Make It Work “We have to stop glamorizing the ‘I don’t need anybody’ attitude. Wise people know interdependence is key.” By @BoldBeauty56 08 How to Make It Work “The culture needs to show it as more common vs. being a rarity. Most TV shows depict relationships as being drama filled.” By @RohanCrawford 09 How to Make It Work “Take the option of divorce off the table.” By @Key2J 10 How to Make It Work “Instead of the media pushing co-habitation, marriage should be encouraged instead.” By @imlizzashley 11 How to Make It Work “What if gov’t FURTHER incentivized marriage? Lower tax bills, subsidized housing and healthcare?” By @AwesomeJohnson 12 How to Make It Work “Women need to learn their role and allow a man to be a man. God didn’t intend for the woman to be the head.” By @Only1Maranda 13 How to Make It Work “Put God first!” By @EllyG_ 14 How to Make It Work People need to see & hear healthy relationships, great 1s & especially 1s that were not always great but they made it still. By @ivorytabb" 15 How to Make It Work More conversations about marriage and forums by married couples…that keep the convo real! By @myriadthatisme 16 How to Make It Work People need to see & hear healthy relationships, great 1s & especially 1s that were not always great but they made it still. By @ivorytabb 17 How to Make It Work “We need to give black women sufficient reason to begin respecting us again by becoming better men (husbands, fathers, providers).” By @jimitweets 18 How to Make It Work “In this INSTANT society Teach commitment, sticktoitiveness, conflict resolution, empathy, diversity & CARE!” By @UrbanDialog 19 How to Make It Work “Emphasize the spiritual significance of the covenant over the legal significance of the contract.” By @BWSchick 20 How to Make It Work “Change the belief that marriage marks the end of “life”, fun and freedom. By @Maleywood 21 How to Make It Work “Be honest about whether we’re truly willing to do what it takes to make love work, which involves selflessness & sacrifice.” By @Mr_Squires 22 I’m Here for You Need more advice? Just ask. Find me on Twitter or Facebook now. Read More Entertainment Lil Kim Shares The One Thing She Wants Viewers To Take Away ... Travel Airbnb Cancels All DC Reservations Ahead Of Inauguration Week Oprah Winfrey Documentary Coming To Apple TV+ Videos Who is Lorna Simpson Beauty Skincare Products For All Your Problem Areas