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Home · Love & Sex

Spice It Up! The 11 Best Sex Toys Based On Your Relationship Status

Don’t just spice up your latte this fall. Whether you’re single or married and looking for more memorable sex, you can always have a better orgasm — but sometimes you need a little help. We asked all of the pleasure product experts at Babeland all of the uncomfortable questions, so you wouldn't have to, and here’s your ultimate guide to sex toys from beginner to advanced.

By Lauren Porter · October 31, 2016October 26, 2020
01
If You’re Single…

No one knows you better than you know yourself and this Magic Wand does the trick in helping you learn how best you want pleasure for the ultimate “treat yourself” experience. 

 

02
If You’re Single…

Finding that spot takes some time but it gets a little easier with the Moka G Vibe. The curve is perfect for G spot stimulation along with 12 various speeds that give you all the stimulation you need. 

 

03
If You’re Single…

Who said anything was wrong with keeping things simple? The Iroha Mini Vibe is a two tone toy that’s palm-sized to keep your pleasure as uncomplicated as possible.

 

04
If You’re Friends With Benefits…

You never know when the time will be right which is why wearing your favorite toy is a really good idea. The Crave Vesper is a stylish necklace that doubles as a stimulating vibrator for the sexiest of your unexpected moments. 

 

05
If You’re Friends With Benefits…

It’s a two way street with the Lovelife Share Vibrating Ring. A sophisticated toy that adds a little extra zing for both you and your guy—it’ll give you all the sensation for the ultimate moment of pleasure. 

 

06
If You’re A Newlywed…

Start off your marriage right with all the things in the Honeymoon in the Box. It’s got everything you need to kick off your forever love with the perfect amount of naughty and nice. 

 

07
If You’re A Newlywed…

The Rianne S. Duo is the toy that you’ll both enjoy because it’s designed to “bring couples together.” Perfect to enhance the sexual experience, the USB rechargeable toy has a multi-purpose use to drive both you and your partner insane–in the very best way.  

 

08
If You’re A Newlywed…

Explore all the positions your little heart desires and kick it up a notch with the hands free vibrator from Eva by Dame. 

09
If You’re Married But Want To Spice Things Up…

Get your 50 shades on with this beginners collection on spicing things up. With all the accessories you need to try out your kinky side, this Lust Couple’s Set is the perfect exploration to the sexy.

 

10
If You’re Married But Want To Spice Things Up…

It’s the couple’s toy that can be remote controlled from anywhere. If bae is away on business and you’re home alone, the We-Vibe Sync is the perfect long distance toy to keep the sex appeal at an all time high. Even if you’re in the same space, the uniquely shaped vibe is best to be enjoyed with your partner’s pleasure in mind. 

 

11
If You’re Married But Want To Spice Things Up…

The Jimmyjane lets you and your partner keep the perfect dirty little secret during date night. The wearable vibe is best for some discreet action all at the will of your partner. Completely remote controlled, the multi-power, vibration and tease modes are perfect for some naught fun during a night on the town. 

 

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