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7 Ways To Have Better Sex

Ladies, it’s time to uplevel your sex life to achieve consistent joy, excitement, and of course pleasure. Check out our surefire tips below.
7 Ways To Have Better Sex
By Dominique Fluker · Updated February 6, 2024
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For the new year, you should challenge yourself to seek to create a thrilling sex life, one that’s filled with suspense, romance, steamy positions, and, of course, orgasms. Although you may desire a more fulfilling sex life, it can be difficult to understand or go about achieving one without putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. We’re here to give you some low-lift pointers on what to do for yourself and your partner in the bedroom to dial up the passion. 

01
01 Masturbate

Mutual masturbation is when you and your partner are masturbating with each other. You are touching yourselves, letting each other see how you want pleasure. Watching your partner experience sexual pleasure can enhance your feelings of sexual desire and bring you closer together.

7 Ways To Have Better Sex
02
02 Kiss your partner slowly and intentionally

Long and slow kisses will turn on your partner quickly and inspire intercourse instantly.

7 Ways To Have Better Sex
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03
03 Level up your foreplay skills

Caress your partner’s g-spot. Get handsy. Lay kisses on several different places on their body. Foreplay is a fail-proof way to get yourself and your partner turned on and primed for intercourse.

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04
04 Incorporate sex toys

From rabbits to teledildonic toys, these clever devices are sure to add creativity and excitement to the bedroom.

7 Ways To Have Better Sex
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05
05 Try different positions

Missionary, doggy-style, flat-iron, and Gwhiz are guaranteed to make your toes curl.

7 Ways To Have Better Sex
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06 Be affectionate

Shower your partner with all your love and affection, including hugs, kisses, and holding.

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07 Talk about your wildest fantasies and do them

Learning to express your needs, boundaries, curiosities, and sexual desires can boost libido.

7 Ways To Have Better Sex
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