Kofi Siriboe on Life Before Fame - 'I Was Really In The Trenches'

It was Queen Sugar mania at the 2017 ESSENCE Festival and two of our favorite fellas from the show took a moment to get real about a few serious topics during an informative chat for the Coca-Cola Refreshing Voices panel.

Joining host Fonzworth Bentley, actors Kofi Siriboe (aka Ralph Angel) and Omar J. Dorsey (aka Hollywood) dropped a few gems during the transparent conversation centered around life lessons, their careers, and advice to their younger selves. 

 
Drawing inspiration from the show’s title and theme, Fonzworth began the discussion by challenging the actors to speak about a time in their lives when they had to break ground for something new to raise up and grow.
 
“I’ve been doing this for like 20 years and I’ve had to reinvent myself and do whatever I had to do to keep going,” Omar said. 

For Kofi, the lesson was all about sacrifice and transformation. 

“I had to sacrifice friendships and relationships,” he said. “I transformed and became who I was supposed to be and it was like God was talking back and the blessings started flowing.”
 
Fonzworth then asked Kofi and Omar to share their definition of authenticity.  

“Being authentic is really seeing yourself through the eyes of God and not the world,” Kofi said. Omar agreed, adding that originality is key.

“Originality. Being yourself because a lot of people wear these masks and they don’t show who they are. That’s what I can appreciate about Ava and the show because she shows a family, a Black family, and everyone that watches can relate to at least one character.” 
 
Transitioning the conversation slightly, the talented OWN stars kept it honest when asked about life before landing their breakout roles, as Fonzworth noted that it’s more common to hear about the highs of superstardom than the lows that came before it.

 
“I was really in the trenches,” Kofi admitted. “There was another show I was in and I thought, ‘This is it, this is my moment,’ and it wasn’t. I was sad, I cried.” He also shared how that time allowed him to really find himself and the importance of establishing your platform once you get the work.
 
Omar spoke on portraying mainly “gangster” characters in his past roles and reflected on a time when he didn’t work for an entire year. “You have to have that year of no and a year of yes,” he told the crowd. “I had to refocus myself because I was tired of playing gangsters.”
 
While discussing roles, the actors talked about the experience of working with a female director at the helm and whether or not there was any difference in working with a male director. Both Kofi and Omar showed their appreciation for the space that female directors were given and stressed the importance of being able to have narratives of the Black community being told from their point of view.

 
“We’ve been given space to take our time, the pace is different,” Kofi said. “It’s about balance and I think it’s a huge part of why Queen Sugar is what it is. Ava and Oprah are amazing.” Omar shared with the audience that ninety percent of television shows and films are directed by white men, adding, “For me, to be directed by a woman gave me sensitivity that I didn’t even know. I have an openness, it made me a better actor.”
 
Wrapping up, the two shared the advice that they would give to themselves as youngsters. “

Don’t change a thing,” Omar said. “There’s something about that ride and the mistakes I made that made me who I am.” For Kofi, enjoying the journey is half the battle. 

“I would tell my younger self to enjoy the journey,” he said. “I’m very goal oriented, but I’m learning that it’s more about finding and exploring. Take your time with it and choose to be happy in the process.”

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