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10 Black-Owned Valentine’s Day Gifts That Put Self-Love First

This curated list of gifts to give yourself help elevate your daily rituals and allow you to feel cherished on February 14th and beyond. 
10 Black-Owned Valentine’s Day Gifts That Put Self-Love First
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By Elizabeth Ayoola · Updated January 24, 2026
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Valentine’s Day is most often framed as a celebration of romantic love, but at its core, it can also be a powerful reminder to pour back into yourself. Whether you’re partnered, happily single, or somewhere in the complicated in-between, the truth is, the most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself.

Self-love doesn’t always look glamorous. Sometimes it’s non-negotiable bedtimes, honoring your boundaries, or having the hard conversations you’ve been avoiding. And other times, it’s more indulgent—treating yourself to things that enhance your natural beauty, calm your nervous system, or simply make you feel cared for. Buying yourself a Valentine’s Day gift falls into the latter. It’s an intentional reminder that you deserve pleasure and a little luxury, no matter your relationship status.

We’ve put together a curated list of self-care and self-love finds from WeLoveUs.Shop to help elevate your daily rituals and assist you in feeling cherished on February 14th and beyond.

R&R Skincare Whipped Shea Body Butter

Rich and nourishing, this 100% natural whipped body butter sourced from Ghana helps deeply moisturize skin, offering a moment for self-care during your daily routine. Perfect for after your shower or bath, you can choose from a range of scents including lemongrass, oud, lavender, or an unscented option for those with sensitive skin.

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Be Rooted Dedicated Mindfulness Planner

Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for yourself is to get organized. This planner by Be Rooted helps you nurture your mental well-being with prompts, goal tracking, and uplifting encouragement.

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Ambiance Scents by Talata BE MINE Vanilla & Shea Scented Candle

This warm, inviting 12oz candle wraps your space in the gentle scent of vanilla, sandalwood, and shea. It’s a perfect companion for slow mornings or cozy evenings, any time of year.

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Be So Selfish ‘Self Love Potions’ Fragrance Oil Set

A collection of five enchanting fragrance rollers by Be So Selfish that help you embrace confidence, presence, and smell good in the process. From playful to grounded scents, fragrances in the set include Like Candy, Priority, Deeply, That Girl, and I’m Her.

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ABSTRX Nail Art Press-ons Stainless Steel: Manicure Kit

Nail care at the salon can rack up a bill, but doing it at home can save you money. This stainless steel manicure set by ABSTRX Nail Art Press-ons has all of the essentials you need–precision nail clippers, sharp cuticle nippers, and an easy-to-grip cuticle pusher. The items are anti-rust, so they should last for quite some time.

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Hustle & Hope Gold Liquid Hustle Mug

Hot drinks can help set the mood for your day, whether it’s a cup of coffee or an herbal tea. Treat yourself to this stand-out mug from Hustle & Hope, giving you one more thing to look forward to when indulging in your favorite beverage. It’s an 11oz mug that could give you the daily dose of motivation you need.

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Be So Selfish ‘Manifest’ Space Spray

Your home is your sanctuary, so setting a proper atmosphere is key. These 4oz multipurpose space sprays can be used to reset your space as often as needed. Made with alcohol, essential oils, and 100% natural fragrance oil, they’re an ideal self-care gift for Valentine’s Day. For all of the health-conscious people, the products are free of artificial colors, parabens, animal-derived ingredients and formaldehyde.

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The Wellness Apothecary Wooden Pill Box

Struggling to remember to take your daily vitamins? This thoughtfully designed wooden pill box by The Wellness Apothecary can help make it easier. It has multiple compartments and a secure closure to ensure you’re giving your body what it needs daily.

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R&R Skincare Liquid Black Soap

Bath time is one of the few moments during the day when you can be present and focus on caring for your body. This liquid black soap is a way to give your skin some loving and can be appealing to folks who aren’t fans of bar soaps. A natural and nourishing cleanser for head to toe, this soap gently cleanses while keeping your skin soft and refreshed.

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Liquid Gold Hair Products’ Authentic Batana Oil

Imported from Honduras, the 20oz batana oil is formulated with essential fatty acids, antioxidants, and natural emollients to nourish your strands. Liquid Gold Hair Products says its product promotes hair growth, reduces breakage, and helps nourish your scalp. If one of your goals is to show more love to your crown, this is one way to do that.

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