Author Terry McMillan's relationship with her "down-low" ex-husband, Jonathan Plummer, reads like the pages of one of her best-sellers. After finding out he was gay, she confronted him on "Oprah" five years ago. But as the two reunited on yesterday's show, they seemed at a better place. In her usual straight-no-chaser manner, McMillan spoke of finally letting go of her anger, and realizing that bitterness is a "termite." "I just wanted the beauty back," she told Oprah... Here's what you had to say: Brandy commented via Facebook: "Being friends with your ex is doable." Jeanette wrote via Facebook: "I'm glad that she's no longer in that negative space."