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Modern Day Matchmaker: The 10 Best Places to Meet a Man

Modern-Day Matchmaker Paul Carrick Brunson offers single ladies some insight on where to meet a man.
The 10 Best Places to Meet a Man
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By Paul Carrick Brunson · Updated October 28, 2020
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High on the list of frequently asked questions I get, somewhere between “are you the real Hitch?” and “do you take charity cases?” is my favorite, what I call the notorious Q.U.E.R.Y.: “where is the best place to meet a man?” While I am not a believer in one ultimate Mecca for single men, I do know there are better places to meet men than others. As a professional matchmaker, I spend a significant amount of my time headhunting men for female clients. The following list represents the top places I use to identify men for my female clients.