High on the list of frequently asked questions I get, somewhere between “are you the real Hitch?” and “do you take charity cases?” is my favorite, what I call the notorious Q.U.E.R.Y.: “where is the best place to meet a man?” While I am not a believer in one ultimate Mecca for single men, I do know there are better places to meet men than others. As a professional matchmaker, I spend a significant amount of my time headhunting men for female clients. The following list represents the top places I use to identify men for my female clients.