[BLANK_AUDIO] I want my husband and I to have to have a threesome with another man, not a woman. How do I convince my husband to get on board? Vonda, we'll start with you, girl. Well. [LAUGH] Good girl. They can disagree with me but listen. There's no other man coming or no other woman or no other man coming up in my bedroom. Just point blank, simple. So you just. Nope. NOt even gonna try to convince your man. We talked about, one of the things about being married is you want to communicate to your husband and his ego. Mm-hm. So for you to want to invite, I mean, I know it's trendy and if that's what you do, to each its own. But for me, I feel like, if I'm gonna communicate to his ego, one of the things I want him to know is that he's my man. He's my king, whatever I'm calling him. You know, what's going on, so I don't want another man to come in there and to defile our bedroom. Cuz for me, I just don't think that, that's not anything that I would do. So that just wouldn't be your fantasy. Yeah, it just wouldn't be. But if that's something she's wanting to do, I would say she's gonna need to communicate that with him. Do I think he's gonna go for it? Probably not, because I think a lot of men, from what I can tell, they're okay with threesomes if it's a female. Well, let's ask one, cuz Josen, you're here. I mean, I'm saying that to say, this is definitely a question I need you to answer, because you have to speak for the fellows here. Because, as women, if we want to go there. This is gonna be a tricky subject. I mean, I can't speak for the fellow, I think it is an easy answer. Really?. No, this is not going to happen. There is no easy way to I have not have a conversation with a guy who is said, they want it to happen. But, let's take me out of the equation in term of my own personal preferences with the guy that I know. Your husband should know that you have that side of you, or that desire in you. And I guess the way that you could go ahead and you could bring that up is just one, do your research into that sort of lifestyle. And kind of try to get some anecdotal evidence some testimonials and things like that, things that you can gather. Present some facts. Present him facts and say see it isn't what you think it is these other people have had a different experience this is what the. And maybe He would get on board after you go after ahead and you do that because, again, you have to understand, most men who have an image of that sort of thing, don't have a positive of that sort of thing, right, exactly. And, if they could have done something like that at some point in their life when they were in more of their reckless days or things like that. And once again Not a positive image that they have, right. So I think with the woman has to do in this situation is present it as her, as his wife. You know what I'm saying? Like hey baby, this is what I want. Like I understand that, yeah. Okay. You are my husband, I am your wife, these are the ways that you have to present it. You can't present it the way You're watching some adult video and that goes down. And that looks really interesting, but no, that's a fantasy. That's not real, you know what I'm saying? So what are you really talking about? [BLANK_AUDIO]

Feb, 23, 2017

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