Yes, dolls. We’re starting the list off like that. What’s going on under that fab maxi dress? Are you wearing granny panties? Whether you’re a recent grad or a Gram, you will move differently in the world if you don a pair of red skivvies that make you feel sexy. Boy shorts, thongs or vintage lace. Side benefit: Red is the color that most magnetically attracts men.
While everyone is going on about “50 Shades of Grey,” why not get off the page and experiment in your own love life? The next time a meaningless argument breaks out, hand him his tie and say, “Well, I guess that you need to punish me, then.” You won’t remember what you were fighting about.
Kissing is one of the first things to go in a romantic relationship. Remember how exciting it was the first time you felt your lover’s lips on yours? Your summer assignment is three minutes of kissing a day. You’ll be making a serious deposit in your relationship intimacy bank.
If you’re single, the most sexy thing you can do is reconnect with your own body. Take a dance class. Find a studio that offers burlesque or pole dancing. Or just get a hula hoop and rotate those hips. You free your sexual self when you wake up your Sacral Chakra. That’s your booty, hip area and lady parts.
I wouldn’t be your official Lifestyle Passionista if I didn’t tell you to handle your business, pun intended. There are sexy toys by women for women, on the market. Of course there’s the discrete Bedroom Kandi lipstick vibe from Kandi Burruss. You may also enjoy the new and unique LadyHug vibrator designed for maximum orgasmic heights.
Abiola Abrams is an in-demand love, sex, dating and relationship columnist, coach and speaker. Find her award-winning blog and web TV show at AbiolaTV.com. Watch her give lifestyle advice on shows like the CW’s Bill Cunningham Show. She is the author of the upcoming Official Bombshell Handbook.