ESSENCE.com Relationships Editor Bobbi Misick confesses to talking about sex on the first date with another OKCupid bachelor. Have you ever felt so comfortable around a man so quickly that you think you may have just found a new best friend? That's sort of what happened when I went out on another date via OKCupid.com last week... Here's what you had to say: Desiree commented via Facebook: "If we want to be respected as more than a fling then we need to act like it." Gabrielle wrote via Facebook: "A first date could be a nice outlet to find out about the person's sexual behaviors. The lack of communication regarding sex is often what destroys relationships."