When it comes to sealing the deal--from girlfriend to wife, more often than not there really is no one prescriptive formula. How to handle a man who won't put a ring on it is a drama most women would rather watch on television than live through themselves. Author Steven James Dixon--whose book "Men Don't Heal, We Ho," instructs single women to "Show Him Your Woman"--says it's a known fact that men are generally slower to commit. They may not know what they want just yet and may need a little more time to figure out how compatible you really are. In the meantime, showing him the real woman in you is a recipe for success. "Too often women are more concerned with how to get a man then they are concerned with how to be a woman," he says. Here are Dixon's ten tips to get you on the express from girlfriend to wife. You'll laugh, you'll cringe, and you might even relate.