Today marriage counselor Shane Perrault gave his advice on how to make sure you're ready to tie the knot. He mentioned "The Four C's" that all couples need. Tell us which one you think is key. Write to us at Relationships@ESSENCE-online.com and tell us what you think the secret to a successful marriage is. We'll reveal the top ten user answers on ESSENCE.com this Friday, January 8, so stay tuned. Check out more Will You Marry Me?