Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: I need to party! Dear Shirley and Steve, I am a 19-year-old female with a 29-year-old man. We’ve been together for 7 months and we just got an apartment together. He’s been divorced and has 3 younger kids. On the other hand, before I met him I was stripping at a club. He met me there and we started dating, and when it got serious he asked me to choose him or the club. So I changed my lifestyle around and chose him. My Issue is that I still want to have fun. I’m in college now and I told him I want to go out to clubs (not strip clubs) and parties and have fun. When he was my age he did all of that, so why can’t I do the same thing? I know I’m in a relationship and I can control myself but can I go out to college parties and clubs? What should I do? To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.