Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: One drunken night I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. Two years ago he had something to tell me and he was very scared to tell me. When he finally got it together, he told me he hasn’t been faithful to me and the out come of it was a baby. I was shocked and asked him why. He said it was only one time and he was drunk when it happened. He claims that they don’t talk and he wants me to forgive him and continue our life as one. I know every relationship has its ups and downs, but this is a bit much to get over. Don’t get me wrong. I love him. I just can’t make up my mind if I should let me go and move on or just deal with that baby. I wanted to have a baby for him, but since this issue came along I don’t think I can have a child for him after what he has done to me mentally and emotionally. What does my Steve Harvey family think I should do? Ms. Confused from New Jersey
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