Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: I want a rough neck Hey Shirley & Steve, I met a guy over a year ago on Blackpeoplemeet.com and things did not click initially, but we kept seeing each other around town recently and we decided to give it a try. Well, I must admit he has wined and dined me, romanced me and treated me a like a queen, fulfilling many of my dreams of what I want out of a man. With all these things I should be happy right? Well, he has no thug in him. I am a very intelligent, beautiful black woman but I have a little hood in me and I want my man to have some thug in him — you know a man’s man! I think this is preventing me from actually falling in love with him. For example when I cross my legs he will cross his too (no homo). When I want it rough he will ask me first. Just give it to me. Do you feel me? Help me! I do not want to lose a good thing!
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