Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: I want what I can’t have Hi, My name is Pat, I live in Switzerland, and I am 20 years old. I’m a big fan of your book: “Think Like a Man, Act Like a Lady.” I’ve read it so many times! I’ve gone out with this guy twice — he’s 25. He really doesn’t want a relashionship right now. That may sound familiar to you, but now that I have this problem I really don’t know how to deal with. I know I’m young and I shouldn’t act like this, but I’d really like something serious with him. Sorry for my bad English! I hope you can help me out with this–I’m in a really bad situation and someone to count on would be really great. Thanks to all the crew for being there for us!  
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