Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Damaged by a serial dater Good Morning Morning Crew,
I am a 27-year-old who got caught up in a web of lies and deceit. I feel like I was an assistant in an Houdini act. My now ex-husband turned out to be a serial dater. He had at least 17 girlfriends that he met on a myriad of Websites and other venues, seven additional children that I did not know about and lived in a neighboring state to our home. He used his military career as a means to maintain his extra relationships and as an excuse to be away from home for weeks maybe months at a time. I came to find out he was discharged from the military three months into our marriage and was lying to keep up his deceit. Now I am in a new relationship with a great man and my perception of things won’t let me fully trust him. I am afraid that I will lose him if I don’t stop checking his phone, e-mail, mail, whereabouts and friends’ location. In other words, I need to stop trying to become his shadow. He knows of my past relationship and is being very patient with me, but I fear he will grow tired of me because he has given me no reason to have to check up behind him like I do. Please help!
–Jah, The slowly recovering heart
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