Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Is it me or is my wife crazy? Hey Y’all, I have been married for about five years. In the beginning I had lots of friends online and talked with them. This happened a few times — every time I would get upset with my wife I would find my online friends. But the last time has been over a year and I swore it off because I do love my wife. Well now she has taken on some weird habits herself. She has copied my bank info and checks my account regularly. She is always going through my phone when she thinks I’m asleep. I caught her one night at 3:00 a.m. Plus she is always starting fights. The worst part is she accuses me of staring at every woman we pass. Any woman she sees as “sexy,” I’ve got to be ogling. I cant take it anymore, what do I do? I don’t want to leave her but she is forcing me out by her actions.  
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