Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Rage and revenge Dear Steve, I have been with the same man for almost ten years. We have two kids together. Our arguments have always been about us not being married. He thinks if he introduces me as his wife to select people it’s the same thing as being married. However, he has female friends that I’ve never met and they don’t know I exist. He has no problem telling them about his kids. I finally got tired and moved out with the kids last June. Can you believe another woman moved into the house in July? I am angry because all the times I have accused this man of cheating he flat out denied it. Even when I confronted him about this girl, he told me she’s just a roommate because he could no longer afford the mortgage. Well, she moved out when she found out about me. He came back to apologize and I moved back in. Now, Steve, I didn’t move back because I believe and forgiven him. In fact, I really hate this man. He got himself into certain situations with immigration and I’m the only one who can help him. I want to use this to destroy him. Am I wrong to want revenge? He has wasted ten years of my life. To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.