Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Bringing an extra woman into the bedroom Dear Steve & Shirley, I am 31 years old and have been married for three years, but have been with my husband for 15 years. He is 32. When we first met, I told my husband of the fantasies I had of being with other women. These feelings go way back to when I was a child. I always liked girls better than boys although I didn’t understand those feelings as a child. I didn’t act on these emotions until I was 29. That’s when I had my first encounter with a woman that my husband arranged for me. Needless to say, I really loved it! After about a year, nothing else really panned out until a few weeks ago when we met a beautiful woman (by chance) and we began talking having drinks and laughing. She has curves in all the right places. We planned on meeting her the next day and it went down! I never in my life had as much fun as I did that night. While some women couldn’t handle seeing their husband with another woman, it turned me on even more. I couldn’t get my mind right for days after that meeting. We both really like this woman and I truly think she likes us equally the same. The problem is she is engaged to someone else, so we can’t hook up with her like we want to. I don’t know what’s going on in her house but we want her for ourselves. Should we cut our losses and find someone else or take what we can get because the sex is on point! By the way being in this open relationship has really strengthened my marriage with my husband. We are finally able to be ourselves without limits or constraints. It truly helps that we both love us some sexy women. Give it to me real, Steve. At this point I can handle anything! To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.