Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Get right with my wife Hey Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31-year-old successful man. I’ve been with my wife for 14 years and married for 5. During this relationship I have done all but brought another child into this world outside my marriage. This woman has stood by me through it all, she is part reason for my success today. The thing is I have cheated on this woman so many times that it’s a shame. A few she has found out about, but she has stood by me because she says that no woman is going to come between her family. We have a 3-year-old son together that’s my world. The thing I need help with is what can I do to start building that love and trust back into my marriage. I can say I have been faithful for a year since our last incident and we have had a few arguments because she speculates about me cheating. It makes me mad when I know I’m telling her the truth but I know my past has forced her to act that way. So, if you guys can give me some tips to become a better husband I’m open looking forward to hearing from you. To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.