Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Cheating Wife Needs a Superfreak Dear Steve Harvey, I have been married for 19 years to a wonderful hardworking man. He provides and protects me. Seven years into our marriage I started partying at a club where my ex-lover worked. He expressed his undying love for me and he wanted to know why I didn’t marry him. For over a year, he pursued me. He insisted it didnt matter that I was married, he wanted me back. So began our love affair that lasted for ten years. My lover died suddenly a few months ago. I am heartbroken over the loss of my lover. My husband does not know about my love affair. Telling my husband about the affair is not a option. My husband pays the bills and my lover gave me all the thrills. How can I get my husband to be that super freak in the bed that my lover was? To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.