Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: The Man I Love Is A Female Dear Steve, I’ve been dating a man for three years. When we first started to date, everything was good. The sex was great, as well. Two years into the relationship, he asked to marry me. So I said yes. The first thing I did was call up all my family and friends to give them the good news. I asked him when was he going to tell his family and when was I going to meet them? We’d been together for a year and I had not met or saw one picture of his family. He told me, “In due time.” I heard the story for so long, I was sick of hearing it. So, one night, when he was asleep I went through his phone. I dialed the number that said Mommy. To my surprise, on the other end, it was this old lady saying, “Kim, honey that’s you?” I answered her by saying, “No, I’m Shay, your son’s soon-to-be wife.” The woman answered me by saying, “I only have one child, her name’s Kim.” My heart dropped, without giving her a chance to say anything, I hung up. Tears rolled down my eyes. The man I love is a female. That explained sex in the dark and never meeting his, well, her family. Please tell me what to do. Should i stay or leave? To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.