Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Fed Up Brother Steve, I have been with a widower now for the past two years. He has six kids and I have two of my own. I have been helping him and pulling most of the weight since we officially moved in together. He doesn’t have a steady job, but has his own lawncare business but it’s not doing too well, either. I’m a very strong and independent woman and I don’t wait for anyone to take care of me or pay my bills, however, in this situation I feel he has gotten too comfortable with knowing that. He knows that I love him very much and I feel that he thinks I will always be there. He takes me for granted. I just got him to stop wearing his wedding ring. I love the kids and they have become attached to me. I don’t want to hurt them. He has started staying out late and coming home falling down drunk. We have talked about marriage but at this point I wouldn’t dare. I love him dearly, should I wait for him to get it together or should I cut my losses and move on? To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.