Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Smooth Ladyuser I have been seeing this guy for two years now but we have known each other for 25 years or more. We started a sexual relationship all those years ago but it was only sexual and we both were cool with that. Now we are currently in the relationship that I have always wished for, the only problem is the first two years of our relationship he lived with me, but we no longer live together. Recently he got his own place, which he has been wanting for some time since he just got out of prison two years ago. The part I don’t understand is he refuses to tell me where he lives, he says he needs time to get it ready. So I asked, “well, how long? A month, two months? how long?” He replied, “I do not know and I do not know if I will let anyone know.” I think if he cannot tell me where he lives then there must be way more going on than he wants me to know. He keeps insisting that he is not a CHEATER and I am crazy for suspecting or even asking him if he is seeing someone. I do not think I am crazy for wanting to know where he lives. I think I should know if I am his girlfriend and who he says he loves so much. So please Steve and crew, tell me if what I am feeling is wrong or if he is wrong. I know I am not crazy but he wants me to believe I am. To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.