Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Where do I go from here? Hi Steve and Shirley,
I am embarassed to write this letter asking for advice, but here it goes. I have been married for over 15 years to a good and responsible man. The problem is our sex life. We rarely do it. We both work and have the usual family responsiblities with older parents and older children. When we come from work, we are both exhausted. My husband spends a lot of time watching porn. I don’t like it or watch it but realize it is a man thing. The problem is he is using the porn instead of having sex with me. When we do have sex he expects me to respond like the hoochies in the video, you know all the moaning and screaming. Don’t get me wrong, I do make my share of noise. The problem is he has a head-start on the foreplay department and expects me to wake up and be ready to go. I have talked to him and asked him to wake me first so I can participate fully but he doesn’t seem to get it. What can I do to get him to understand? Thanks for any insight…
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