Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Weekend Trips Steve, I am in a three-year relationship with a man who is involved in the party business. His company promotes ski trips and parties, he is only a promoter. We have a one-year-old boy. Before we got Involved I heard rumors of him sleeping around on these ski trips, and he was in another relationship at the time. His excuse is that he was unhappy with his relationship. He claims that his girl did not care for him. I can’t help but wonder if he would do the same to me, we are very happy in our relationship but that still does not stop me from wondering. While I was pregnant he went on a trip and took pictures with girls, dancing and posing. This does not help me to trust him. I’ve been waiting for an engagement ring, he claims that he’s been engaged twice before and it failed on both ocassions. We’ve argued because I say that I don’t want to wait anymore, it’s not fair to me. For this Valentine’s Day, he gave a pre-engagement ring. I setteled for It, and now I still have to wait for the real thing. I love this man but I feel that he’s either lying to me or not serious about me at all. I’m 26 and he is 35. I’m eager to share, explore and grow with my man, but he’s basing our relationship on his past with limitations. What can I do, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life waiting for him… To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.