Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Friends with benefits or lovers Hello there guys, How are y’all doing? I am in this situation with a guy who you would call a friend with benefits. The problem is, now I have feelings for him and want more out of the relationship. Don’t get me wrong. He is a very nice guy. He makes me feel really, really good. He has all of the qualities that I am looking for in a man. We can converse about everything except for our feelings. When I am with him sexually, he makes me feel sexy and desired. Yet, I still want more and yes, to be honest, I’ve cried myself to sleep wondering if it will ever be more or if I am just a fool for allowing this to go on. Steve, I don’t want to lose him as friend. How can I go about asking him if he has any intentions in regard to us moving to something more serious? Am I foolish to think that it will, or should I just cut my losses and move on? To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.