Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: I want to know if she’s my daughter I recently came back in contact with a female that I was dealing with back in 1987 and found out that she had a daughter that’s 21. So, I started asking her questions and she got real defensive, so I just came out and asked: “Was she my daughter?” She said no, so I asked could I see a picture of her, and again she said no. But she did tell me her name so I went on Facebook and there she was, and I know she is mine. I wrote her and explained the situation to her and said that I might be her father. She approached her mom and she denied ever having sex with me and told her daughter not to talk to me anymore. She is doing just what her mom told her to do. I just want to know if she is mine, and if so then I missed 21 years of her life and she has two kids that can be my grandkids. My family and friends are telling me to just leave it alone but I can’t. Can you all just give me some advice please? To submit your own letter to Strawberry Letter, click here. For more information on Steve Harvey Comedy tour dates, click here. For more Strawberry Letters at ESSENCE.com, click here.