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Today’s topic: My Wife Will Pay

Hello Steve,

First of all, I hope someone reads this! Next, I have been married for eight years. I loved that woman with the love of God! About four months ago she left me for no reason. I did not want to live. She told me she found someone on the Web. I gave up on life. Then she moved to VA with him and took the kids. They were not mine, but I loved them anyway — all four of them. The man she left me for was older — 51. I am 37 and she is 50. Well, what do you know? She came back. I told her I forgive her, but the truth is I am planning to let her think I forgave her by doing everything the same old way. I plan on trying to hurt her just as bad as she made me hurt. I dream of this every day. I prayed to God for her to come back. Am I wrong to do this? Yes. I know I am, but why did she hurt me so bad!? I sleep at night thinking about how she touched him. Can you give me some man-to-man about this.

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