Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: She slept with more than 30 Good Morning to the Morning Crew, It has been about a year now since I have been seeing this woman, and within the last three months through conversation, I have found that she has had sex with as many as 30 men or so. As much as I want to put this behind me there are things, such as different topics, certain situations that bring this to mind. I love this woman, I truly do and I believe she loves me as well. We are both in our mid 40s and I myself have slept with ten women in my entire life, my relationships were somewhat long-term if I may say so. As far as I know I have never dated a woman who has slept with so many men, so this is something different for me. There would be times when things are going really well for the two of us, and there I go with questions that leads to her past that disturbs me, and then she is upset thinking that I am judging her. I’m the last person to judge anyone. She has told me that if this is something that I can’t deal with then I should just leave her alone. One side of me wants to leave her alone and the other side is telling me different. I am just totally torn. How does one handle a situation such as this? Thank you Morning Crew, Confused Brother
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