Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Feeling Disrespected Hello, steve and shirley, I would like to know what would you have done, If your husband took his ex-girlfriend on a trip to las vegas for her birthday and( for my birthday he may have spent a total of 60.00 dollars for me). This ex-girlfriend supposed to be a good friend of his who dates women now..They were gone for three nights and slept in the same bed. He went anyway knowing i new who he was taking.. He kept saying he was going for a trainning session for work and she was just passing thru and i was just being insecure and i dont trust him. Steve i never felt so disrespected in my life. and we all suppose to be christians… He is a well respected deacon in the churh and she still belongs to the church also. You dont know how hard it is to have to still faced this woman and still hold your head up high. Also I was three months pregnant at the time. Steve, this woman has was been in our marriage from day one. An ex is just what it is ex-communication ex-everything. I love him so much but only by the grace of god and my relationship with god and the vows i took with this man,I couldnt walk away. Steve i have forgiven him but i cannot forget everytime i see this woman how my husband put her feelings before mine. What should i have done in this situation my family said i was crazy. I know you are going to tell me some real talk.
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