Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Is this normal? Good morning everyone, I’ve been dating a great man for the past ten months and I know he is the one! He treats me like a queen, cooks, cleans, works hard and brings ALL the money home to mama (me)! The only problem is the bedroom…The foreplay is out of this world, but when we come together as one he’s like a rabbit. He totally disconnects from me by closing his eyes and doing his own thing. I’ve let him know a few times that this bothers me and he has tried to change for all of two minutes and then goes back to eyes closed and hammering away. My question to the morning crew is this: should I be satisfied with the foreplay and let him continue with this behavior or do yall think I should keep at him about it?  
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