Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: Babydaddy wants too much Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 20-year-old student and I recently found out that I am pregnant. I was shocked because I was told I wouldn’t be able to have children when I was in my early teens. The father and I were friends-with-benefits but that ended. I felt he needed to know about the baby. At first he thought I was lying and wouldn’t talk to me. A week later he saw me and some friends shopping for the baby. He confronted me and I pulled out the ultrasound picture. He apologized and is now excited about the baby. A little too excited. He is demanding to be involved in every decision and to be notified of every doctor visit so that he can come. He is a 26-year-old without a job, and he is not in school. His family is rude to me and has demanded that there be a DNA test as soon as the baby comes. He is already talking to a lawyer about custody, because I will have to move about four hours away after I graduate (after the baby comes) for my career. I’m not sure how to handle this, my family is being supportive, and I’m already taking parenting classes. I know that a child needs two parents but he’s already being overbearing, I can only imagine what he will be like in April when the baby is here. Please help me do the best thing for my baby and myself.
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