Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice. Today’s topic: I dream about other men Dear Shirley, Steve and the rest of the Morning Crew: Im a 30-year-old woman who is madly in love with her fiance. He treats me better than any man I’ve ever been with and I love him with all my heart. We have chemistry and a regular intimacy and there is nothing I would change about him. He is the love of my life and, this time next year, he will be my husband and life partner. Here’s the problem: lately, I’ve been having dreams about other men, not him. I dont know why because I am satisfied sexually, but for some reason my ex-boyfriends make hot and steamy cameos in almost every dream I have. I would never dream of ever cheating on my boyfriend so I don’t understand why I can’t stop having these dreams! To make matters worse, he started asking me what I dream about, I guess because I have a tendency to mumble in my sleep. I’m terrified that one night I will say something that will make him think I’m having an affair. I would never cheat on him! Should I tell him my dreams and hope that he understands? Should I keep them a secret? I dont know what to do because I don/t want to lose the best thing that has ever happened to me because I cant get my thoughts under control. Please help! Sincerely, Wandering Mind
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