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Today’s topic: Having My Cake and Eating it Too

Good morning Steve and Morning Crew,

I have been married to a wonderful woman for 11 years and I lover her very much. There’s only one problem, we have sex like I think a married couple should. I understand that women go through a lot physically as they get older — but once or twice a month is just not enough for me. My wife is a very attractive women and I myseld am a handsome, healthy, physically fit man. But we have only have sex when she wants to, never when I want to. So as Steve stated one day on the show, I have found me a better boo. She gives me all the sex I want and never asks me for anything. She is a successful independent woman that is all about her career and sexing me when ever it’s convenient. I have been seeing this woman for three yeas now and I do not see myself stopping at all. I really do want to, but it’s just too good to me. I  know what I need to do. I do not know I want to do.


Having My Cake and Eating it Too

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