Every day we feature the beloved “Strawberry Letter” franchise that is so popular on “The Steve Harvey Morning Show,” heard nationwide. Send in your letters and Shirley Strawberry will dish out the necessary advice.
Today’s topic: Got Pregnant on Purpose
Good morning everyone,
I will get straight to the point. I had sex with an ex who broke up with me eight years ago because he thought I couldn’t get pregnant. I was fine with him leaving because because I was just gaining weight from being so unhappy. But anyway, I spent years taking tests to find out why I didn’t get pregnant for two years. It turns out I had high level of prolaticin. Well I got off the meds for it but I had no man. I became so desperate and depressed that I purposely slept with a guy who I knew wouldn’t wear a condom. I just wanted t see if I could get pregnant. I didn’t think about the consequences at all. It was like I wasn’t here or in my right mind. I got pregnant and I have been going through hell on earth, from physical fights to neglect. I went through the pregnancy alone. I cried every night. Every time I try to get him out of our lives he tries to come back saying he wants to be a dad He doesn’t have a job and is living with a woman. My daughter and I live alone and I pay all my bills. I’m not on any programs. I am very independent and I’m a great mom. I know I am a good woman, but how do I bounce back from this huge mistake I made all because I was so desperate to see if I could conceive a child? I want to work on me now! Steve, I do love him, but I know he has to change on his own. There are so many things that happened between us. I am no saint. I should have been a lady and carried myself that way. Steve, please help me with some advice.
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